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From: David Shapiro
Date: 22 Oct 2004
Time: 01:45:02 -0500
Remote Name: 62.245.97.105
Hi Shelly, You've asked such a good question. As I read through the other responses to your question, I see that you've received some really good advice. So my thoughts here will be brief, more from the perspective as a person and as a person who stutters than as a professor. Indeed we are treated somewhat differently on the basis of all of our unique characteristics. How we perceive and respond to interaction with others as well reflects our uniqueness. What's more, I don't think that being different or being treated differently is all bad. All of us have something to work on within ourselves. Sometimes I have come to feel fortunate that at least we know what we need to work on! No kidding, we may be treated differently, but every experience we have provides an opportunity to learn about ourself and others. And we learn at least as much from the challenging experiences as we do from the easier ones. Having said that, I am convinced that stuttering does not need to hold you back in any way - socially, educationally, professionally. From my own experiences, I was told far too often by well meaning people that, because of my stuttering, I could not or should not do a number of things I had planned. Every time I heard this, I became more convinced that they were wrong. The ultimate outcome for me was that I became even more motivated to achieve everything I set my mind to. I hope if you experience challenges because of your stuttering that your motivation only increases and that you achieve all of your dreams. Remember that when one says "The sky is the limit," that only reflects the limitations of one's own thinking. Hang in there. Today, there are so many good people who DO understand. As you can see from the responses, you're not alone. Let any of us know if we might be of support to you. Best of luck to you. David